Weekly dances with bands are a great way to meet other senior singles.

Weekly dances with bands are a great way to meet other senior singles. Dancing couple: Ed Sehrt and Joyce Cunneen.

The North County Singles Club, a club for senior singles over age 50, has been around for more than 25 years. We get together for a variety of activities. If you like to dance, or want to brush up on your dancing skills, attend one of our Friday night-dances in Vista Elks Lodge where different live bands provide the music. The events include buffet dinners and are reasonably priced.


Number_5_20160823Or join the members and their guests in card games held in club houses. Shown here are a guest, Joe Clark and Wally O’Neil playing poker.


We are a non-profit club, and our yearly dues include a monthly newsletter and several special events for members only.

For information please contact Rose Benalcazar, VP Membership,e-mail fadfeb24@yahoo.com or cell (909) 319-2283. You can attend our events for 3 times as a guest and we hope you will join the club!

Our regular activities are:-

Dinner-dances at the Vista Elks every Friday

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Wine & Cheese at private residences
Summer picnics at different places
Attending performances at Lawrence Welk or the Avo Playhouse
Short trips to interesting places
Annual Christmas lunch hosted by the club



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Connie Gentili, a guest and Amy Ingram

Connie Gentili, a guest and Amy Ingram

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Trip to Julian

Trip to Julian. Savor their delicious apple pies and enjoy the beautiful country scenery around.